30 Day Challenge: Day 21

 So today's topic is turn on's and off's. Since I think about this sometimes, this shouldn't be too difficult. 

Turn on's

Kindness

Intelligence

Being a feminist

Patience

Calmness

Being Friendly

Loyalty (and no cheating)

Easy going (but still cares about things)

Being good with children

Being good with people who have disorders 

Someone who treats women as equally capable to men

Letting me do something without barging in to help when I don't want it (I can carry this damn thing myself, thank you very much). Basically, treats women with respect (also, should treat POC, LGBTQA+, etc people with respect and not a friggin bigot)

Similar interests

Liking the Star Wars EU and other geeky stuff

Is open-minded

Understands the concept of privilege 

Honesty, but tempered with gentleness

Bravery

Openness with emotions (TALK to me!)

Being able to fight

Can appreciate feminine things

Someone who will give me strong hugs

Won't debate with me and tell me I'm wrong all the time

Someone who treats me as my age but still realizes I have a disorder

Knows how to cook and clean and sew

Loves his friends and family (unless his family are a bunch dickheads, then he can dislike them)

Can sing

Isn't rude to people with food allergies 

Has people skills (since I don't)

Knows how to handle a meltdown

Turn off's

Being a creep

Wanting to be overly physical in public (like NO PDA!)

Being a bigot (no overt sexism, racism, homophobia, transphoia, etc)

Being abusive

Manipulative 

Saying that men are stronger than women

Controlling 

Arrogant 

Cocky

Being obsessed with breasts (I hate that character flaw :p  They are ONLY for feeding BABIES) )

Being overly pessimistic/apathetic 

Pushy 

Disrespects boundaries 

Treats me like I'm freaking four 

Won't answer a question when I don't understand something

Takes things from me when I'm carrying them

Piercings 

Blasting rap music

Someone who has a lot of pets

Someone who says "all guys are assholes", which is such a cop-out

Someone who dismisses feminism (like if you say "feminism isn't needed in first world countries", I'll tell you to F off).

Someone who is on my case to wear make-up and shave all the time

Making fun of my acne and scarring. 

Says that my favorite fandoms, characters, ships, and friendships are all dumb and don't make sense. 

Being militant or extreme on any topic.

Not being reliable 

Getting into my space when I want to be alone

Taking things out of my hands without asking

Telling me I can't carry something because 'men are stronger' (which is total BS).