Actor, Writer, Jedi, Singer,

Actor, Writer, Jedi, Singer,
You were my brother, Anakin. I loved you

Wednesday, June 22, 2016

30 Day Challenge: Day 21





 So today's topic is turn on's and off's. Since I think about this sometimes, this shouldn't be too difficult. 

Turn on's

Kindness
Intelligence
Being a feminist
Patience
Calmness
Being Friendly
Loyalty (and no cheating)
Easy going (but still cares about things)
Being good with children
Being good with people who have disorders 
Someone who treats women as equally capable to men
Letting me do something without barging in to help when I don't want it (I can carry this damn thing myself, thank you very much). Basically, treats women with respect (also, should treat POC, LGBTQA+, etc people with respect and not a friggin bigot)
Similar interests
Liking the Star Wars EU and other geeky stuff
Is open-minded
Understands the concept of privilege 
Honesty, but tempered with gentleness
Bravery
Openness with emotions (TALK to me!)
Being able to fight
Can appreciate feminine things
Someone who will give me strong hugs
Won't debate with me and tell me I'm wrong all the time
Someone who treats me as my age but still realizes I have a disorder
Knows how to cook and clean and sew
Loves his friends and family (unless his family are a bunch dickheads, then he can dislike them)
Can sing
Isn't rude to people with food allergies 
Has people skills (since I don't)
Knows how to handle a meltdown




Turn off's

Being a creep
Wanting to be overly physical in public (like NO PDA!)
Being a bigot (no overt sexism, racism, homophobia, transphoia, etc)
Being abusive
Manipulative 
Saying that men are stronger than women
Controlling 
Arrogant 
Cocky
Being obsessed with breasts (I hate that character flaw :p  They are ONLY for feeding BABIES) )
Being overly pessimistic/apathetic 
Pushy 
Disrespects boundaries 
Treats me like I'm freaking four 
Won't answer a question when I don't understand something
Takes things from me when I'm carrying them
Piercings 
Blasting rap music
Someone who has a lot of pets
Someone who says "all guys are assholes", which is such a cop-out
Someone who dismisses feminism (like if you say "feminism isn't needed in first world countries", I'll tell you to F off).
Someone who is on my case to wear make-up and shave all the time
Making fun of my acne and scarring. 
Says that my favorite fandoms, characters, ships, and friendships are all dumb and don't make sense. 
Being militant or extreme on any topic.
Not being reliable 
Getting into my space when I want to be alone
Taking things out of my hands without asking
Telling me I can't carry something because 'men are stronger' (which is total BS).

4 comments:

  1. Nice list, I agree with these too. Definitely that respect when I want to be alone and easy going but liking stuff. :D

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    1. Thank you, glad you do :) Definitely! :D

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  2. Alone time is a must!

    Misty Kasumi*

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